Friends or Not

My DH and I "talked" this weekend. He vented his frustrations and I mine. He thinks things have been going downhill the last year or two, that would mean ever since I had the boys. I think it has only been since he was laid off work. He says he can live without sex, he just needs to know. I said his ignoring me in every way and not looking for a job has made me more and more unhappy. He was acting the way he was to get back at me for acting the same way. Childish!!! He says he still loves me and always will. I said this is no way to live life and why should we stay married. He says because we have 2 children to raise. People do it all the time. He said for me to act happy and maybe I will be happy. It is all just so crazy. I will think, research and see if I can find my way back to his being a friend and he will look harder for a job. We did agree to put the house up for sale and rent for a while. We'll see what happens. Right now I can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. Maybe time will tell.